Archive For The “The Mind Game” Category

New Year’s Resolution #1 – Shushing Your Brain

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New Year’s Resolution #1 – Shushing Your Brain

There is nothing either good or bad, but thinking makes it so. – William Shakespeare Why Quieting Your Mind is Key to Unlocking a Better Life Ryan Holiday on saying no, staying calm, and the costs of chasing after the wrong things. BY CLAY SKIPPER for GQ With the books Ego is the Enemy and The Obstacle…

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White Is A Color, Too

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White Is A Color, Too

Wholeness is not achieved by cutting off a portion of one’s being, but by integration of the contraries. – Carl Jung Black is a color. And white is a color, too. Red. Brown. Yellow. You.

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Indigenous Peoples’ Day

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Indigenous Peoples’ Day

Our nation was born in genocide when it embraced the doctrine that the original American, the Indian, was an inferior race. Even before there were large numbers of Negroes on our shore, the scar of racial hatred had already disfigured colonial society. From the sixteenth century forward, blood flowed in battles over racial supremacy. We…

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Sometimes I Feel Like Kanye, Sometimes It’s Brautigan

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Sometimes I Feel Like Kanye, Sometimes It’s Brautigan

If you have the opportunity to play this game of life, you need to appreciate every moment. A lot of people don’t appreciate the moment until it’s passed. – Kanye West Sometimes I feel like Kanye, sometimes I don’t. First couple lines of a poem I didn’t write. Wrote those lines back when I could…

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Why Fascists Cancel African-American History

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Why Fascists Cancel African-American History

I am America. I am the part you won’t recognize. But get used to me. Black, confident, cocky; my name, not yours; my religion, not yours; my goals, my own; get used to me. – Muhammad Ali We’re living  in a dumbed-down culture  because the education  of most people  in America  is sad  and not…

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Why You Should Practice Safe Sex

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Why You Should Practice Safe Sex

Sex, whatever else it is, is an athletic skill. The more you practice, the more you can, the more you want to, the more you enjoy it, the less it tires you. – Robert A. Heinlein, The Cat Who Walks Through Walls Admittedly, he’d had too much to drink the night before. She was brown and…

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Riding The Back Of A Tiger In Old Age

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Riding The Back Of A Tiger In Old Age

He who rides a tiger is afraid to dismount. – Chinese Proverb Most of the time we live on the back of a tiger. And most of the time, the tiger is sleeping. We get to concentrate on being writers, parents; we know who we are and what we’re trying to do. Then every so…

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Like Blind Men Describing An Elephant

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Like Blind Men Describing An Elephant

If only we could always say our truths–if we could name the things that haunt us–maybe they could float up from us like the kind of helium that the birds would sip in the treetops. Then they would make us laugh and laugh. — Rita Zoey Chin In the mid-1800s, John Godfrey Saxe wrote a poem…

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Deprogramming The Neighbors

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Deprogramming The Neighbors

The techniques of many cults fall under the general rubric of brainwashing… Consciously and manipulatively, cult leaders and their trainers exert a systematic social influence that can produce great behavioral changes. – Margaret T. Singer, professor of psychology at the University of California at Berkeley Deprogramming the neighbors. My inclination would be to explain quietly,…

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Delusions, Perspective and You

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Delusions, Perspective and You

A delusion is a false fixed belief that is not amenable to change in light of conflicting evidence. As a pathology, it is distinct from a belief based on false or incomplete information, confabulation, dogma, illusion, hallucination, or some other misleading effects of perception, as individuals with those beliefs are able to change or readjust…

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